Three steps. Then you’re in a room.

No onboarding novel. If it takes longer than making tea, something’s wrong.

1. Say you’re an adult and pick a side. Man or woman on the home page. That’s how we route you. Not a personality quiz.
2. Put something true on the profile. A face helps. A sentence about what you want tonight helps more than a paragraph about your dog, unless the dog is the point.
3. Join a room. Watch first if you’re shy. Talk if you’re not. If the vibe is sales-pitch or “gift me,” walk.

Mic, camera, text

Use what you’re comfortable with. Text-only in a video room is odd but it happens. Don’t demand someone else’s camera if yours is off — that’s a fast way to get ignored.

Leaving

Close the tab. Block. Report. You don’t owe a goodbye. We’d rather you bounce than sit through something rotten. More on that in safety.